IntermediateGrammar Structures

Learn So / Neither + Auxiliary in English

Agree with positive and negative statements: So do I. Neither can she.

Learning goal
Recognize and use this pattern in context.
Practice
10 randomized questions with explanations.
Suggested workflow
Study the examples, then take the quiz.

Grammar Focus

When someone makes a statement and you want to agree with it, English uses two special structures: So (for positive agreement) and Neither (for negative agreement). These structures allow you to say "me too" or "me neither" in a grammatically precise way by mirroring the auxiliary verb from the original statement.

  • Use So + auxiliary + subject to agree with a positive statement: "I love jazz." → "So do I."
  • Use Neither + auxiliary + subject to agree with a negative statement: "I can't swim." → "Neither can I."
  • The auxiliary verb you use must match the tense and type used in the original statement: be verbs, modal verbs, do/does/did, have/has.
  • The subject and auxiliary are inverted — unlike normal sentences, the auxiliary comes before the subject.
  • In informal speech, Me too (positive) and Me neither (negative) are common alternatives, though they are not grammatically complete sentences.
  • These structures are especially useful in conversation to show empathy, agreement, and shared experience.

Form & Structure

Agreeing with Positives: So

So + auxiliary + subject (So do I. So is she. So can he.)
"I love traveling." → "So do I."
"She is exhausted." → "So am I."
"They have finished." → "So have we."

Agreeing with Negatives: Neither

Neither + auxiliary + subject (Neither do I. Neither is she.)
"I don't like spicy food." → "Neither do I."
"He can't drive." → "Neither can she."
"They haven't arrived." → "Neither have we."

Informal Alternatives

Me too (positive) | Me neither (negative)
"I'm tired." → "Me too." (informal for "So am I.")
"I don't understand." → "Me neither." (informal for "Neither do I.")
"I've never been to Paris." → "Me neither." (informal, common in conversation)

Common Mistakes

Using the wrong auxiliary verb

"I love chocolate." → "So love I."
"I love chocolate." → "So do I."

Tip: You must use the auxiliary verb that matches the original tense. For simple present with action verbs, use do/does — not the main verb itself.

Using 'Neither' with positive statements

"I enjoy reading." → "Neither do I."
"I enjoy reading." → "So do I."

Tip: Neither is only for agreeing with negative statements. If the original statement is positive, always use So, not Neither.

Keeping normal word order instead of inverting

"She is happy." → "So I am."
"She is happy." → "So am I."

Tip: After So and Neither, you must invert the subject and auxiliary: auxiliary first, then subject. Think of it like a question structure.

Why This Grammar Matters

Finding common ground with someone you just met

“"I'm originally from Mexico City." → "So am I! Which neighbourhood?"”
“"I don't know anyone here." → "Neither do I. Let's introduce ourselves."”

Agreeing with a colleague at work

“"I've already submitted the report." → "So have I. Great teamwork!"”
“"I haven't received any feedback yet." → "Neither have I. Let's follow up."”

Chatting with friends about preferences

“"I can't stand loud music." → "Neither can I. Let's find a quieter spot."”
“"I really enjoyed that film." → "So did I. The ending was brilliant."”

Expressing shared concerns or feelings

“"I'm a little nervous about the presentation." → "So am I. Let's rehearse once more."”
“"I didn't sleep well last night." → "Neither did I. The thunder was terrible."”